my t & i discuss how i look...she notices when i lose weight, or when she sees my van at the gym...or if i get my hair cut or my tattoo. me i don't pay attention to how i look...it is not an issue for me...i pay more attention to how i feel.

we will discuss things upon occasion & if i bring it up but usually she does...which is fine..she notices if i get a new coat or anything. i do the same with her...

if i had an issue i could bring it up with her...she has said she would help me with things if i needed it as for clothing etc because i just don't know...

but mostly i don't look at pictures of me...i tend not to have any taken & there aren't any from my childhood so it's not an issue...