Honey, your quality of life has been altered.

I know it is normal to want to take this on yourself -- I would be doing the same thing -- but PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE know this is not your fault. Not in the slightest, teeny-tiny bit. You were a VICTIM of a pathological person. You did NOTHING to earn what has been done to you.

Every button I have has been pushed on your behalf. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help. When I can't make myself feel better, I like to try to help others do so, if I can.

Love, Candy