These scenes are probably in many of our pasts. My dad wasn't like this that I ever saw, but I saw my various uncles act out like this. Now that I know more about their pasts, as abuse and war and other stories have come out over the years - it's all just sad, and I kinda wonder why i'm the only one who is alone, and who was/is always in therapy. but I guess i'd rather be on the outside looking in at all that mess.