hi blur.... I didn't tell aj about the stuff I found. It wasn't in her purse... It was in what looked like a pencil holder or cosmetic bag and was on the countertop... I just happened to look in it because it was cute and was shocked in what I found...

Thing is, AJ knows about her "addictions"... He is the one that made her "get clean".. Which for the most part, she did come clean... AJ would give her random urine tests... And the stuff in the cosmetic bag came up possitive....

I regret that I didn't tell AJ.. I regret that I didn't grab the bag and take it directly to AJ. I was just surprised because I believed her when she swore up and down she was clean... AJ gave her random urine tests and the stuff in the cosmetic bag came up positive..

SHe is so good at telling lies so you would have to have the "evidence" right in front of her to prove anything.. ANd even then she prob could talk her way even out of that as she is a very good liar... Pills were found behind a picture in the bathroom and she blamed it on the renter... Pills were found on the bottom of her purse and she swore up and down she didn't know how they got there... Pills were found on the floor of her car and she shrugged it off saying she didn't know anything about it............

She is under prenatal care now, so I would think if she is taking anything, the doctor would find it? She said she talked to the doctor about the prescriptions she was addicted to and the doc said the baby "should" be ok......I just hope some where along the line she learns to be truthful and stay clean, if not only for herself, but for the baby too....SO for now, we have to believe she isn't taking anything other than prenatal vitamins....

AND in the future, should I ever find anything questionable I will take it directly to AJ... ANd I don't care where and how I found it.....I would not hesitate taking action immediately.........