Twisted soul I liked sleeps and with my abuse history I did not see this coming. many of us didn't

Look at the situation campared to what we all know about abusers from the professional agencies that are helping us to recognize abuse and stand up for ourselves -

A pertetrator tries to befriend their victims
once befriended the perpetrator starts emotionally abusing
During and after the emotional abuse the perpetrator uses manipulation tactics, fear tactics and turns the blame on the victims
Then the perpetrator offers rewards and prizes for their the victims silence.
When they realize their victim is not going to be silenced they turn the situation into an advantage or what it isn't.

Sleeps befriended people here and if those friends
did not agree with her she emotionally abused - called names and so on and then turned the blame on them by calling thenm jelous (and other things I have noticed by rereading her posts)
Then the end abuse happened against WI_fighter. She tried to silence her with bribery and when that didn't happen she posted that she was going to be off the site for a bit for other reasons not related to this situation So she still was not going to accept resposibility for hurting Wi_Fighter. Yea she admitted to Wi_Fighter and Doc John but she also swore Wi_Fighter to secretcy

how many of our real world rapists and so on appologized to us but denied it to the community at large and made us out to be liars and so on?

Sleeps may have said to Doc John and Wi_Fighter she waw going to accept resposibilty but if she was going to live up to that she would have openly on the boards appologized to EVERYONE here for what she did. When she abused Wi_Fighter she was no different then my abusers that kissed up to me then emotionally abused me then physically and sexually abused me and then placed the blame on me and gave me money and objects and reasons to fear so that I would keep quiet and then when when I went public first my abuser tried to kiss up to me and when that didn't stop me there were threats and so on.

Would we welcome my real world abuser here for doing this to me? Of course not.

Bottom like sleeps was well liked just like our abusers
Sleeps gained our trust like our abusers
Sleep emotionally abused people here like our abusers
Sleeps tried to hush up her victim like our abusers.
Sleeps tried bribery like our abusers
Sleeps gave a different reason in the generalmessage boards for her not being here which in my book amounts to nothing more than lying and denial by omision Just like our abusers did

And now you are saying maybe we should not send her packing.

Well look at the steps an abuser takes and how she has followed those steps the only one left is for her to retailiate and threaten her victim because she was exposed.

Im sorry I am not in agreement for taking her back she has followed the other steps of an abuser so I have no doubt that if she is allowed back here she will attemt to terrorize Wi_Fighter and possibly other victims if there are any that have not come forwards.

Sleeps does not belong here any more than my real world emotional, physical and sexual abusers do.