Can you please stop for one second and read exactly what I wrote :
Again, I agree her actions were deplorable. I have no rebuttal for that.
My concern is that we as a support community are sending her packing....

I am asking you to please help me understand this as my abandonment issues and thought processes are not comprehending and I fear that I could be left on a doorstep at any moment.
So, I guess it is my own insecurity that I am dealing with and asking someone to guide me.

I support Wi-Fighter and want to help her heal from this and even offered to help her get a dog. So, it was malicious and I understand that.
Help me, would you?

SEE, IT ISN'T THAT I AM SAYING LET HER COME BACK. I HAVE NOT BEEN UNDERSTOOD >>>> MY ISSUE IS I AM FEARFUL OF ABANDONMENT AND BEING ABUSED AND I AM DEALING WITH THIS IN A VERY HARD WAY TOO.

I asked for help in understand and in support of my OWN issues. Not asking for Sleeps to be able to come back and "rape" and "rob" again.

She sucked me in just 3 days before all of this and I believe she did it because she was up to her cruel acts and wanted me to soften the blow. I feel EXPLOITED!