Trust is something you earn. Just like with money you have to keep earning it! In order to do that we all need to be honest and true to each other.
Sleeps doesn't earn any trust coming from our direction, anymore. We all make mistakes, but this wasn't a mistake it was an evil act.

Wi_fighter, I really feel for you in all this! I hope that we all here in PC, been hurt by this, will heal as good and as fast as possible.
The trust issue will probably be a tricky one, at least for a while. We've already been decived before in life by others and we sure don't want to be in the same situation again.
I think it's good that we discuss this so openly... to get it all out and to find ways to continue our fight for a better life, together.