I was thinking...

I've always heard "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

If I meet someone in RL - I may not perceive them as attractive however , if I get to know them and discover I LIKE them, they become more attractive to me. The opposite is also true, a person I see as beautiful who is a jerk and I DON'T LIKE becomes uglier to me. If I HATE them, they are ugly to me no matter what! But if I LOVE that person , I find them to be beautiful even on a bad hair day.

So it stands to reason,
As I perceive most of us dont LIKE ourselves or parts of ourselves, until we learn to overlook our flaws and LIKE ourselves then LOVE ourselves we will never see the true beauty of US , what our loved ones see... The true us.