Ok. I need to say something, I think.

Shirley, you reacted to an attack. You should NOT feel guilt or regret about reacting to such an attack. Hindsight is 20/20 dear and there are alot of "what if's", but I think you're something else and allowed me and the rest to do what we needed to even though you had more emotion than you could express...um, good job doesn't express it.

love,

kd