girl.......you deserved to say everything that you said when this happened. i'm still terribly angry at the person who did this to you, your children and our community. and yes, this was a community. so many of here have shared so much and how sad it made me feel for us to be PMing about taking all of our personal photos down and changing our bios, etc. etc. i loved looking at people's pics..so that i could put a face with the poster. i remember the first photo that i saw of W1-Fighter...i knew that i was going to like her!

so, perpetrator, do you feel good about our loss of community and our openness and our ability to reach out to each other through our personal photographs? do you feel good about W1 and her children NOT getting the dog? how do you feel about her daughter being afraid to sleep alone? (and, i, personally sleep with two dogs and i know that if it makes an adult feel safer.......imagine how a teen would feel.) the reason i'm asking, is that i know you're reading all of these posts. you have no idea what low regard i hold you in. that you would stoop to something as base as revealing that a person belongs to a support forum and direct ANYONE here is absolutely beyond me...in a way..it is.......but on the other hand, it doesn't surprise me at all that you did it.

to deny another human being the freedom of coming here and being open and honest is disgusting. and to "offer support" and such when this all went down is lower than an old black snake's belly. i really, really want you to know that you didn't fool a lot of people. you really didnn't. you managed to hurt a lot of us, but you didn't fool a lot of us.

PC will still be special but i will always be afraid to post anything personal here. i asked KD to go back and delete my most personal threads about my health and such. i cried and cried when i had to ask her to do that. i shared that because it made me feel good that i had love and support from others on this site. that is why we ALL shared. and now, you betrayed all of us. Shirley, her children, Doc John, KD, the mods and all the members...........

by the way, in no way do i believe that only one person knew what happened. i KNOW that more than one poster knew what was planned and when it happened. and YOU are just as much to blame as the person who notified the adoption agency is. and believe me, i'm pretty sure that most of us know who you all are. this was something that was PMed and e.mailed about and giggled and snickered over. and the deed was done. and you all are to blame.