How can I tell if my boyfriend really loves me? I know that's a silly question... But I've been feeling really lonely lately. No one really talks to me anymore and even though there are people at my lunch period that say they're my 'friends' I end up sitting alone everyday. I feel like I don't have many people that care about me anymore. And because of that I'm starting to get paranoid that my boyfriend will leave me. I find myself getting really upset and doubting our relationship because of things that happened ages ago. I feel like if he had another girl to go to he'd drop me in a second, and I keep trying to stay positive and try to find proof that he does love me but... I keep finding reasons to believe he doesn't love me.