okay I think that you need to except that this guy is not going to change.
Saying that think hard that if he can't or wont change will you still want
to be with this guy?
I think you should ask him to sit down with you talk to him
about what you want and what you need from him.
don't talk about why he doesn't buy you gifts and that sort of stuff just say something
like you want him to make you feel special.
idk if I helped you out or not but that is what i think you should do

Jake