Thank you for the replies, I will try to talk to him once more and tell him that I'd like him to make me feel "special".... The thing is, when I tried to communicate my feelings to him earlier he said he needs time, bla bla bla.... What for? I've no idea! I personally think that it is much easier for him to say that this is him and I should accept it. He doesn't seem to want to change his ways, and he is quiet egocentric.... the world should spin around him really..... I guess it's just the way he always was, he is a musician and lived alone till he was 40 because he didn't want to deal with women's stuff. So, I guess that tells everything really....

Thanks again and all the best for you!