Fire Woman-- Go you
I too have had many related incidents that you discribe in your post with my own brother.
It does get to a point in time where - As Many Like to call them- Boundaries to be put in place.
I still have to work on mine; but thank you so much for sharing this.
You are right, you don't need to put up with yelling or belittling from him, esp when you are trying to support him




many hugs and smiles your way