Diana! Welcome!
I post on several sections of this site and none on some. I think it will be good for you to get a referral for a pdoc. Are you on other meds other then the Seroquel? I ask because I don't think I have known anyone just to take that alone. I am going to start taking my Seroquel again this evening specifically for sleep. I have used it in the past and I know how sleepy it can make you feel. One thing I found with it was I started taking it earlier in the evening other then right before bed to avoid some of the "hangover" effects.
To touch on what you are feeling, Girl I think you are doing what I consider probably the toughest yet most rewarding job there is and that is being a in home mom. I did that for several years and as you probably know it can be very tiring. I think you have a great outlook on things in general because you want to be the best you can for your family as well as yourself. Your attitude will take you in a positive direction. I have Bipolar1 and my mood swings can be horrible, not just for me but others around me. Think the biggest distinction with Bipolar and PMS is the timing. Bipolar episodes for me can last days where PMS "swings" are pretty short lived.Thank God for meds!!
Sorry this turned into a bit of a ramble. I basically wanted you to know your not alone.
Cher