(((((((((((((((Mel)))))))))))))))))))
I would have loved to have you as a mom when I was a teen! The fact you are listening to her is one of the best things you can do. My mom used to get so upset at me it it just made me do it more and not speak to her about it at all. It really sounds like the two of you have a nice bond.
BIG HUGS
Cher