PAYNE, I would be upset. I don't ever want to be treated with a pat on the head and a "don't you worry your little head" attitude!

When I had some tests done during a year of sickness, I recognized on lab order was for a cancer lab. I was not thinking CA at that time, and I let the doctor know that I wanted to know everything upfront. She was apologetic and thought she had discussed this with me, but I know she had not. But from then on she did and all was well. I was glad I spoke my mind and felt confident I would not get only part of my health information again.

Should doesn't enter into it. You are angry. Tell them and why