After 16 hospilizations and decompensating living under my parent's wings, I spent 1 y and two months in a Residental Care Facility where my clothes were washed, medications given, room cleaned, and I was expected to mature. If it is a last resort, take it, though there may be more availbility where you live. Apply for diability, oh yes, it is tough paperwork and in this state is a joke, of course talk with your doctors and lawyer. Disability is not enough to live off of, but that money coming may open some doors for you. Sorry about ya'lls homes and I know the solutions run thin, but do what needs to be done to the best of your ability, and be patient. Continue to take care of yourself, even if that means faking it until you make it. Good luck. Mental Health in this country is termed Mental illness, remember that as you consider your next move. Get the papers rolling, I had to apply 4 times to get disability and barely did, and as I said it is not enough to live off of. Things look grim because they are, but perhaps this can be a way to loosen your financial burdens and focus on treatment. Blessed be.