M, aside from one snotty remark that sounded remarkably like something my mother would say, and a couple of comments about my medical bills, my sister has been pretty OK -- she doesn't *expect* me to contribute (aside from picking up around the house and feeding the cats, LOL). I just feel bad for not being able to. Frankly, out of all 4 sibs and my mother, she's been the best about not complaining. So I know when she starts to that it's getting to her, too.

Thank you {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{everyone}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} for the support and ideas. Cher, I hadn't ever heard of your visualization technique, but i love it! I'm going to try it today.

I'm feeling a little better, but will probably still spend most of the day in bed. And then I'll feel guilty about THAT. Anybody got any ideas on how to give myself a break?

Candy