http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0398722/plotsummary
Awful Normal...

I just was wondering---Has many seen this or heard of this?
I was doing some searching to read on some things to help myself and this movie popped up.

I have Netflix so I searched and found it, skipped parts of it of course- I don't want to watch it all right now or if ever.

I put a trigger button due to I can see how it is triggering and if you know what it is- I don't want to trigger you- as well as what I would like to ask--

I have in the past- Wondered what good would it would do to ask my abuser questions...
I watched the part of where they go and talk to their abuser- what good does it do to hear it from them on what they did, weather they believed it was right, and if they have changed...
could be able to believe any of it?

In My case it was my oldest brother that I remember- And it comes down to that he was hurt by another family member(s) and just turned into what he did due to lack of parent supervision, and so on and so on- other factors and so on and he was one of the older kids given "supervision" over us younger ones.....-- This does not excuse what he did- It does not excuse any of it or there for after of what he has done, but it is like i have that answer- what good would it do to go talk to him?

With me-- I understand that there will also be my wonder and question on WHY - Why did he turn out this way, Why did he do this to us, Why...... Why could he not be a protector big brother, rather than a predator big brother. even Why was he abused- Ask the abuser's abuser what up and why-- which would just go back to more and more- nothing would really validate it- just people that were unable to break the cycle of what happened to them in essences.

Another thing is that with my oldest brother- he would deny it as he did with my sister when she came out and told my family of her abuse; and I bear witness to that as well as how my parents reacted, when it was brought up and my brother blamed another family member of it and so on. It was a mess and another great memory from my teenage years.


I just have to ask-- Does it really do good to confront your abuser in such a thing?