First of all you don't ask to get hitter by a car! She could have been paying very good attention and who cares if it wasn't returned the first time u asked! I was crossing the street in may, looked both ways got half way across and checked again and sill got clobbered at 45 mph by a girl who had sun glare in her eyes. I died on the scene and was brought back by a good samaratin . I had a lengthy Hosp stay and numerous emergency surgeruies a brain hemmoraghe and was un a coma.
It us nit your fault. Things happen unfortunately that are out if our control and our power! We can't question a higher powers plans for us. My father always used to say to me when I was coming back from one of my situations, "Today is the first day of the rest of your life." we get do overs as a matter of speaking. I wish blessings to you and your friend.