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Old Jan 10, 2012, 09:45 PM
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Originally Posted by ECHOES View Post
This IS a good thread ~ Thank you for starting it.
So many times I have these vague fears that I can't name, that just make me feel weird and abnormal. This is one, this fear of some public places like stores.

The other day I found myself grocery shopping as if someone was watching what I was selecting and judging the selection, etc. I realized that it feels this way very often!

And I LIKE canned peaches. But I feel like I 'shouldn't' like canned peaches, that I should only want fresh, and organic if possible, peaches. Why canned anything? There is a whole produce section of fresh things right over there. And what are you going to have with those canned peaches? Cottage cheese? Well that's just fat! (even though I buy low or no fat). Sometimes I can't even reach for what I want.

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Thanks for this. I have to laugh with you!

You know?

I was raised by a very restrictive aunt---health nut!

I have a critical voice inside my head, too.

the antidote to that?

"Billi, what do you think? Not what they think!"

anyway, I was selecting lettuce today and I had to almost say to myself, "Billi, you are buying this because you want to eat better. Bruce bought this the other night. It's okay."

You bring up a great point---why do we have to JUSTIFY?

None of anyone's business!

thanks,

Billi
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