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I have anxiety and I have anxiety involving sexual things as well, it's very common in fact. For one reason or the other. When you consider how many people have been SA'd and when you consider how many people who were not but were taught the "naughtiness and disgust" and the "sin" of anything sexual, you have nearly the whole population. It's on rare occassions that you find someone that is truly comfortably with the sexual part of themselves.
Then you have some that are a little more stressed during intimacy. Often it's because of abuse or as mentioned above the false comments made about it as a child, these kind of things can cause you to go from uncomfortable to panick instantly. No matter what your reason, you're not alone in this. Intimacy is a very private and intimate thing, where if you are not in the right mind set or in the comfortable setting, it could end up being very difficult. You're not alone, not at all.
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I'd lock my hands behind my head, I'd cover my heart and hit the deck, I'd brace myself for the impact if I were you.
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