(My brother was talking to his daughter (who is 4) about his recent dr appt. When he used the pronoun "he", my niece broke in and said "silly Papa, boys aren't doctors".)

I'm so glad I have a female T. I think, after a lifetime of friendships with women, it's easier to talk to a woman. All this is hard enough with her, I can't imagine how long it would take to relax enough with a man.