Wow beauflow this is so beautiful. You know, one of the early criticisms of Freud was, people said, why talk to a doctor, can't we just talk to a friend about our problems? And Freud is said to have replied, "Ah, but where would you find such a friend?!" Well, it sounds like YOU have such a friend. You two are such a caring couple, it gives one hope. Thank you for sharing your journey with us.