I have seen 3 female T's, two close to my own age at the time, current T is 20 years older. I have nothing against males; each time I was open to either gender. In everyday life, I tend to get along with males much more easily. I find men to be much more straightforward.

If I get past this rift with current T and she is willing to work with me on it, considering she is older and authoritative; I can get past the hang-ups I have with women who hold similar positions in my life. If she can show me how to attach healthily and work past the issues, I can stop being "borderline" with these people!

All my other health care providers since childhood have been male with the exception of my long-time GYN, who is female and I'm very comfortable with her.