I like a woman who is older then me as well, current T is 25 yrs older. All other professionals are Male including gynecologist. I am a lesbian in a 12 yr committed relationship with 2 children and 2 soon to be 3 grandchildren and I have no problems with males. I think I needed that mother thing and boy did I pick the wrong T for that, but she gives me what I need NOT what I want. Which sounds way better then it feels. I don't think I could open up to a man like I can to her.