I was assigned my T, but i relate to her i think on a soul level. I was abused by men and women. I've had one male T i didnt care for, but i' ve also had female Ts that were harmful too. In the end, i just want someone who can help me. Now that my new T and i are communicating better, she surprises me and is helping me in way that only she could. Each person has their own unique gifts.