I told T I was embarrassed, last session,she said I should never be embarrassed with her. I asked her if it felt weird for people to transfer things onto her... She said no she's used to it. She knows it's not really her. I think it's our mothers, fathers, abuser's, clergy, siblings and strangers that hurt us and we are learning to undo the harm they caused. Did you learn anything from her refusal to yell at you? Who were you really mad at? She asked me something interesting, she wanted to know if they others people in my life that i have transferred onto, if they were still in my life. The answer is no most are gone. She said that she will be like that, fond memories of a time gone by and not to worry about the transference it's ok... But to know she will not give me what I want, but what she thinks I need....she's said that is why your boundaries have you in a box...even drew the box with her fingers in the air... Nice, she's trying to force me to feel my life... So we can proceed. Sorry for rambling, it was a good session. Talk to T they are accustom to this.