WOW.. never until now have I realized this may be what I'm dealing with!! The more I read of your experiences the more and more I see my boyfriend. Off and on for 10 years.. Me trying to pull away to find me again only for him to pull me back in! He's always called himself 'Mr. Wonderful' LOL. He's completely emotionless, I have to beg for attention. I even married 2 other men in hopes of being done with this man and here I am 4 years after my last divorce still with him... Thanks for writing this.. I need to look further into it!