Oh--and we've been getting counseling from our priest. My husband has me talk to him about everything (I have no idea why) and he's been a gigantic help. My husband isn't willing to seek out any other form of counseling. I figure as long as we're getting it and it's from someone we trust that's what matters.

The last time I talked to our priest he did say that he doesn't feel like he can be impartial and say he's not personally involved. I'm really good friends with him and I sometimes worry that plays into his advice. It doesn't seem to, though.