Hi WW,
I think some of the dynamics here at at PC goes over my head, mightn't be a bad thing.
Anyway, I'd just like to say that you won't be getting any harsh judgements from me. This is a support site, and I think that fact should be the first thing in our minds whenever we make a post, every single time.
Many of us are here because we were messed up with 'harsh judgments' in the first place!
Good thoughts, M