I post in other people's threads if I think I have something relevant to say, even if it is different from the approach of others. Sometimes I feel like a martian on here because some of my views/opinion/approach seem so radically different from most (there are a couple of people I can identify with) but I really like knowing about all the different ways and struggles people have.

I think it is possible (for me) to start a post thinking I want one thing and having that thing morph or naturally progress into something else. OR sometimes I post for some reason but it strikes a chord in others that leads the thread elsewhere - which is okay with me. If that happens I can always start another thread and try again.