I am concerned about Ray Ray as well, he is showing heightened startle response already, that is not good. I developed that at a very young age as well from two older siblings and I am now 50ish and I still have that issue. It really is not good for that young childs brain, you should be concerned.
Your girlfriend is clearly in denial, and is obviously controled by her daughter. What your describing is a disfuntional atmosphere for that young child of yours. Can you secretly meet with an attorney and find out what you may need to do to gain custody of your young child and get him out of that environment? Have you talked to a family councelor? You cannot let this continue in my opinion.
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