(((((((( Songbird )))))))))))

My counselor, (t), helped me learn to have boundries. I more or less had almost none. Talk to her or him. There are wonderful books about it. Every human being on this earth has a right to have boundries. If you were like me, you weren't allowed to have them and now you don't know how to set them in place and what is appropriate.

Talk to your t. He/she will know just what to do to help.

I noticed that you posted in General and thought to myself that you were bring very brave. I'm proud of you for doing it. For a couple days why don't you play it safe and just post where you feel most comfortable. Then the fear will subside. Ok?

I hope this helps.

Hugs,

Jan