As far as Ryan..... I love his as if he was my own.. but he is deathly afraid of his sister and afraid to stand up and talk to his mother. She doesn't want to hear about sam being anything other than an angle. To try to open his mother's eyes, he told her about catching sam naked in bed with some guy who snuck in. She basically called her son a liar even though his friend told her also that if they said anything to mom, they would get their butts kicked. Its such a mess.
In having private talks with Ryan, he believes sam did the same things with his father who ended the marriage as a result.
The control pen(girlfriend) has now is rediculous. I realize now during the past year she has slowly taken everything. She said things like "its easier if I just pay the bills and such" I can't even check to see how much the cell phone bill is cause I don't know the log in stuff. Last week I asked her why is there only 25 bucks in the bank account. Her reply was, I changed the account so its easier to pay bills. I have no control of anything anymore, I'm not even allowed to tell her daughter to clean up her razors she leaves on the sink (Ray Ray got a hold of them 4 times and put them in his mouth) or anything at all for fear of losing my son. I'm a prisoner here. If I leave new jersey with him its kid napping. They have semi taken away my manhood in weird kind of way and I'm lost. I just can't leave my son here because I feel it would be the last time I would ever see him. An anonymous call was made to dyphis ( CPS) but to no avail. They're just to busy I guess. I'm also worried if I make a move (lawyer) and she catches wind, I lose my son

I'm scared humiliated and depressed