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tattoogirl33 · Jan 13, 2012, 10:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Leed

Jeez -- You're living in a vacuum. Nothing is going to change. It's been like this for too many years.

You deserve better than this. He is emotionless. I'm not sure he even knows HOW to hurt.

You have got to move on -- you cannot continue to live without feeling love -- feeling that you are needed and cared for. You will shrivel up and die. Human beings just are not meant to live like that. He's been "programmed" to live like that since he was a child. You were not ---- you won't be able to survive much longer.

Cut the ties and find someone who will love you! You are NOT happy now ---- God intended us to love and BE loved. Don't waste your life. There is someone out there just for YOU. Go out and find that person! God bless you!! Hugs, Lee

Lee is absolutly right! I'm in the same situation trying to find a way to let go and move on. I'm now 34 and have a 7 yr old son with my SO. He'll be 40 soon. It's been 10 years 10 YEARS I've been going back and forth with this man and he too is emotionless.. I just can't take anymore no matter how much I love him. My emotional status is deteoriating faster as I get older and am becoming more and more emotionless as each day passes due to this. PLEASE don't make this same mistake.

Maybe we can do this together.. I'm here for you ! May you and I make the best choices for us.