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Old Jan 14, 2012, 06:50 AM
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This guy sounds to me like he's USING you. He contacts you, says nice things to you, then asks you to borrow money, but says that he doesn't want a committed relationship, and then you don't hear from him for quite awhile. This smells funny.

I would NOT be lending him money, that's for sure. It just sounds to me like he's leading you on, but doesn't intend on having ANY kind of relationship with you at any time. It just seems like he's using you as a bank whenever he runs short of cash. I think I'd steer clear of this one. I know you care for him, but I think you could do better. You're a kind, caring person -- look for someone who cares EQUALLY for you.

God bless & please take care. Hugs, Lee
Thanks for this!
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