that's what tdkgirl's question was about, about forgetting the question - it really still is about the OP. It's become a jazz riff, and they're the band leader. It's a poem, and we take the road less traveled by. I never start threads, so I am totally indebted and so grateful to those who set us out on these incredible voyages. So my answer to the question posed by this post - i'm rowing as hard as I can? I you, earthmamma!