Lido: First off, I think you are very mature for analyzing the situation as you have. I completely understand your concern. I'm probably the worst person of them all to give advice on a porn related concern. My husband of 18 months was (and possible still is) a serious porn addict. It has completely destroyed our relationship. I too "snooped" around on his computer after I noticed a decline in our sex life. I confronted him. He denied it. I showed him evidence. He said he was sorry and that he would quit...but lied. Kept using it for 6 more months (while verbally abusing me by asking me why I cant get surgery to look like the women in the movies and telling me that they know how to satisfy him like Im not capable of....basically defending his porn habit). He swore he stopped using but then I snooped again and found more porn...so I confronted him again and he admitted that he lied our whole relationship and never gave it up. Since then, our sex life is null and void. His laptop is on lockdown and he is forbidden to use the internet "unsupervised". I dont trust him. I can't forgive him. I can't believe that he spent 6 months tricking me, constantly comparing me to those women, laughing at me when I would come to him crying about him "choosing" those women over me then ironically acting surprised when I dont want him to touch me. Long story short, I fear for you and I really hope to God that your boyfriend does not have a porn addiction. If I were you, I'd confront him about it. I believe it's the only way to get to the bottom of this. If you do find out that he has an addiction, I'd give him an ultimatum......he needs to get help from a qualified therapist OR break up with him. I regret not doing the same.