Thanks for helping. My daughter went off to college this year. Our family is unusually tight. It hurt very much. My wife took it hard. I have seem her cry 5 times in 20 years and she crude for 3 days straight after that. I felt power less. To help. I had an emotional break after that. An that helped feed my fears that she saw looking or in an affair. She would tell me I was crazy. She kept me thinking that and I was desperately tryi
G to fix myself. Just to find out that she is having an emotional affair and she kept me in the darkness. She keeps listening to snow patrol. Song. And tears up. Make this go on forever. It's guilt. I see that. But I am willing to accept what has happened and move forward. It's like she is trying to get me so pissed I leave and I am not going to do that. I put on the happy face and keep working in us.