Sky,
Just wanted you to know that I can't get into chat either. I was able too at one time and for some reason my computer has decided that it doesn't want to do it any more. I don't know the answer why. I don't usually go to chat anyway because of a previous addictive reaction and found that it was a blessing to have that temptation removed so didn't pursue it to figure out why it wasn't working. There is a moderator who is currently working to find the problem and the best way to help people get it fixed. Give it a few days and hopefully the answer will be found.

I am rather uncomfortable with some of the responses to your posts. I can't say much due to the fact that I rarely come to the "general" forum and therefore do not know the history behind all these responses and your post to begin with. There seems to be some nastiness here that needs to stop on all sides. It is not conducive to the supportive goals of this forum. I don't know where it all began so I can't give any recommendations on how it should end. I just would like to offer you a place to go to talk about it. Please feel free to PM me if you would like a neutral sounding board. I am going out of town for a couple of days so be patient with the response time but I will be back.
Carrie

<font color=green>But the implicit and usually unconscious bargain we make with ourselves is that, yes, we want to be healed, we want to be made whole, we're willing to go some distance, but we're not willing to question the fundamental assumptions upon which our way of life has been built, both personally and societally.--Bill Plotkin, Soulcraft