"I just wanted to point out that I feel that most people here are looking for that balance and looking for others to achieve that balance. Because the overall wish is to share our improvements with others and to help them to improve..."
Some are looking for "others to achieve that balance" FOR them. That can't happen until the "sharing of improvements" are accepted by the reader and taken to mind.
Right now, I find this board very UNbalanced. Maybe it's my tenacity that has brought me back, yet again, today.
<font color=blue>"Our doubts are traitors and make us lose the good we oft might win by fearing to attempt" --Shakespeare</font color=blue>
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Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.