thanks for the support! Improving, thanks for your thoughts/suggestions, that is helpful....a plan that sets me up to succeed. I like that. That is something like what T said when I was on the phone with her yest. - to do a bit at a time, remember who I am and that I have the power/right to choose what I need and do what I need to do ...... I will try to focus on the good and right things and have expectations for good rather than bad! I will update about the T/closure thing and how that pans out....