Thank you so much you guys.He is taking medication and was doing group therapy which he said helped him, but right now he's not doing any therapy.Since we're in the beginning stages and i'm still trying to get to know him I don't know how to tell him to try seeking therapy again.I tell him i'm here if he needs to talk.I don't want to push him away by pushing anything on him.I haven't made any demands.I have however asked if he is seeing anyone else and he isn't and neither am I.I asked him not to bring up serious talks about relationships as well because I feel it's really soon and I just want to see what happens with us.I really just want him to relax and enjoy his time with me as much as I do with him and stop analyzing everything.It's like he's anticipatinf failure when we haven't even tried.
Lee, thank you for the luck.I'm going to need it or should I say we're going to need it.He's worth being patient for.He's good to me.That right now is what matters.

You are correct about the title not being important.It's definitely not.An yes the infidelity part is my issue.Right again.It's because when I like someone I like to see and talk to only them.I want the same from him which is what seems to be the case so I think we're okay.
As far as you and your bf go.2 1/2 years is a long time.Definitely a serious commited relationship if you guys are just seeing eachother.Is he afraid of marriage and that's why he doesn't want to ask you?Best of luck when you sit and talk to him about being cut off.In what sense do you mean cut off?Like a seperation?I hope it works out for the both of us.