Hillbunny,

It does make more sense, what you're saying. My abuse memories start at the age of 4 so I have no good belief system. T and I are working on it. I have big trouble discrning my feelings from others and always hold myself accountable for how others feel. I know I do it, but can't resolve it. I'm like a giant sponge .

I will put your suggestions to use and see where it goes. Would it be okay if I printed out your response and had T help me with it? I won't if you don't want me to.

Thanks dumpling,

Songbird