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I am not going to be hard hearted about things and not forgive.

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You're doing more than just "forgiving" here. You're trying to keep Sleeps alive on this board. She's been banned for very good reason. Time to let her go!

Think on this a bit: "You mess with me once, shame on YOU. You mess with me twice, shame on ME." When you repeat it, think that YOU are saying it.