I've had the same Pdac for 12 years I think she threatens to fire me every 10 visits however I've been fired by 3 therapists and fired 2. It's hard to get rejected the ones I got Fiedler by I saw one for 7 years and one for 6 years and Abe fir 3 years. I just didn't click with the others. Reflecting back a lit of it was wasted time because I was sheltered and didn't open up. I build walls and dint let people in even family let alone a " stranger" my therapist no matter how long I saw her. I have to accept responsibility in the relationships not going anywhere and my not growing out of them. Yea it was a huge waste of money and time. Go in with an agenda of points you want to talk about and by all means it's ok yo fire your therapist and find one that better nourishes your needs.