granite, *breathe*. It's just a dream, it's not reality. Your T didn't ask or try to be in your dream. One of the scientific theories about dreams is that they are random neural firings in our head and sometimes these random neurons bump up against old or new memories and create these crazy mixtures of things. In other words, this view of dreams is that they have no psychological meaning.

People say that only the dreamer can really interpret the dream, but what you said reminded me of one of your posts where your T said (I think) that sometimes you tried to lump her in with the people in your past who have hurt you. Maybe your dream is about recognizing that you do that, and the lesson is that that feels really wrong. She is not one of those people, she is not trying to hurt you, she is trying to help.

I'm sorry. Nightmares stink.

Anne