Ok, you have royally confused me. I don't get this whole "romance" thing. Life and death are not beings or can "want something to do with you". Have you been attempting suicide, doing self-inflicting pain, or what? You should give us some real life examples of what you're getting at with this metaphor. To me, life is not a commitment of any kind. There is no choice of the matter, there only is or is not. I didn't choose to be born, I was forced into this world and hell, if you're asking me I don't think that I really "chose" anything at all.